College is a new place

Laura and Christa talked a bit about how they enjoy working with college-aged young adults who are developing independence and starting to explore themselves and their interests for the first time. I have been experiencing this first hand. When I came to college I didn’t really expect justĀ how much I would learn, how hard I would work, or how my interests would diverge. My parents gave me a lot of independence when I was in high school and I didn’t really expect there to be much of a transition. But when I got to college I was surprised by being on my own. My parents had given be independence in terms of not placing a lot of restrictions on me, but this was the first time that I was really acting as my own person and looking at my own interests. Just being in a new environment where I wasn’t talking to them as frequently made me realize that I might not be the same person that I had imagined myself to be in high school.

2 thoughts on “College is a new place

  1. I identify so much with this. I’ve been unbelievably close with my parents my whole life and consider them my best friends, but I do notice hearing my own voice louder here in college and making bolder decisions.

  2. I agree. My mom and I have a very close relationship so I do struggle sometimes with being on my own. However I think that being someone who has been independent for a majority of my life, the feeling of having this freedom you do in college is unmatched. You are able to express yourself and learn more about yourself because you are by yourself and I think that is a very special thing.