How often do young people spend quality time with the older generation? Research shows that human needs go beyond merely food and shelter. Without opportunities for socializing and human connection, health suffers. The pandemic hit the elderly quite hard, causing feelings of tremendous isolation and loneliness.
Karl Pillemer, PhD., Human Development Professor at Cornell University, speaks about the importance of intergenerational connection. There needs to be a linking of the young and old, and not just infrequent visits between grandchildren and grandparents. The U.S. is dramatically age segregated. Think about the proliferation of age 55+ condo communities. In an attempt to bridge this gap, Dr. Pillemer created the Cornell Crisis Advice Project, an online program for interaction between young and old in facing challenging times. This successful program gave seniors a sense of purpose as they conveyed wisdom to the young about what they did in times of crisis (some had lived through the pandemic of 1918). Young people received a perspective that they never would have gotten without this interaction. The “elder wisdom” was priceless and gave seniors a sense of purpose. False stereotypes were exposed and the interchange encouraged critical thinking. All in all, this linking of the generations was a sharing experience and encouraged generosity of the heart and intellect.
How wonderful to share time, talent, and love between young and old! Quality of love is increased for both age groups. Remember, you are young once, but can be young at heart as you age by mixing and mingling with different age groups. Everyone wants and needs to be heard. Let the love flow!
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