A New Dimension of Stress

If you were unlucky enough to have a high school experience similar to mine, with more time spent in class than asleep in a bed, more extracurriculars than could fit on a one-page resume, and not to mention the nights that had more hours of homework than there were hours until class the next day, then college was a whole new dimension of stress. Along with just as much homework and just as little sleep, there’s a complete stranger as a roommate, a diet of Nasties french toast sticks and microwave noodle soups, unreliable washing machines that eat your socks, and the elephant in the room, the self-motivation required to get yourself up out of bed, through the twenty minute walk in the snot-freezing weather, and into a lecture hall. But in the midst of all of these varieties of stress, there is the oasis known as stress management. Rose House’s recent massage offering was a breath of fresh air that gave me a moment to sit back, or rather, forward, and relax. Stress management is the most important skill that students learn in college, but also the least acknowledged. The ten minute massage is sometimes all you need, as long as that break is frequent, in order to feel healthy, calm, and energized. So always try to take just a few moments every day as a stress break to reset and feel your best.

 

If you’d like guidance on taking breaks like the one described, the app “Calm” is a good place to start, and a subscription is free for Cornell students. For more information, see https://www.calm.com/cornell.

3 thoughts on “A New Dimension of Stress

  1. I completely agree that learning how to manage your stress and anxiety is one of the most valuable skills attained during college! And yes, it is often overlooked in the competitiveness of GPA’s and leadership roles. Many students often load themselves with credits and extracurriculars alike in an effort to secure their success in the future, but there is no future without a healthy, happy state of mind. I’ve never gotten a massage, but it sounds like it did wonders for you. Maybe in the future I will consider it, because we are all aware of how Cornell fosters anxiety.

  2. I agree. I think often times as college student we are constantly stressed out and often forget the importance of self-care and in a way mental health. Taking a break for yourself is so important sometimes and its something I often think I don’t have time for.

  3. You are absolutely correct in that college causes more stress than our years in high school. I was glad to hear that you were able to relax during this rose scholars session. I would highly recommend you attend a yoga event next semester. I attended a Vinyasa session earlier this semester offered by the Rose Scholars Program and it was very relaxing. Hopefully, I too can participate in a massage like the one you wrote about.