By Maxine Roeper Cohen, M.S.
Having grown up with cats and dogs being part of the family, I cannot imagine my life now without having animal companions share my home. There is nothing like the unconditional love a dog gives you every day. Cats teach us contentment and a quiet appreciation. All of our family’s animals have been ones we have adopted from local shelters and rescue organizations. There are so, so many animals who need homes (and are euthanized if they are not adopted) that it’s unnecessary to buy a pet. Check out www.petfinder.com in order to find local groups who might have that cat or dog you are looking for.
Many children ask or beg for a dog or cat, and their eagerness and innocence might lead parents to visit the animal shelter before they are prepared. Children may promise to help with a dog or cat’s care, but, as parents, remember that the ultimate responsibility rests on your shoulders. Sit down with your entire family and discuss what type of dog or cat is best for your family’s lifestyle. Cats can be left at home for several hours, but dogs are more socially oriented and need that human companionship. Both dogs and cats need a regular schedule of feeding, grooming (keep those combs and brushes handy) exercise, and playtime in order to stay healthy and thrive. Read about dog breeds and personalities. Also, consider any family allergies as some breeds shed and others are hypoallergenic. Think about size of the animal as a large dog can knock over small children and a very small dog can be inadvertently stepped on. Very young children need to be supervised at all times so that they don’t drop a squirming animal or poke at it which would cause a dog or cat to bite or scratch in self defense.
A cat’s litter box must be kept clean as cats are fastidious and often have “mistakes” when their litter boxes are neglected. Puppies need to be trained to walk on a leash and also to become housebroken. All dogs need to be walked on a regular basis, a few times a day, for both elimination purposes and exercise. Puppies tend to bite as their teeth come in and a family has to deal with this. Small children have to be taught how to approach a dog and pet a dog so as not to overwhelm the animal. Cats need to be trained to use a scratching post as they need to shed their claws periodically. It is a natural instinct and behavior for cats to do this. All of these tasks, routines, and responsibilities take time and a great deal of patience. Some families’ lives are too busy to add another level of caring for an animal.
If your family has done proper research, has discussed the responsibilities involved, and has prepared the home with supplies for that new furry member, you are about to experience all the joy and love that a dog or cat can bring. Dogs and cats teach us so much and children grow up with a humane education and a reverence for our fellow creatures. Best of luck!
Maxine Roeper Cohen is a Parent Educator with Cornell Cooperative Extension of Suffolk County’s Family Health and Wellness Program.