Children reap the benefits of having an involved and nurturing father, whether they live with dad or not. Dads provide a sense of security and attachment that helps children feel confident. Studies show that children whose fathers are actively involved in their care during the first eight weeks of life tend to manage stress better when they are of school age.
Fathers are role models for relationships and sense of self. The way a father treats his child will influence what he or she looks for in future relationships. A young girl whose father is loving, kind, and treats people with respect will look for these qualities in a partner when she is old enough to date. Boys, on the other hand, will model their own behavior after their father’s behavior. If a father is caring, gentle, and respectful, his son will often grow up similarly.
Children with involved fathers tend to have better academic outcomes, more motivation to succeed, increased intellectual, emotional, and social competence, and a higher level of confidence and self-esteem than children who do not have involved fathers. Additionally, children with involved fathers have fewer psychological problems and fewer behavioral issues such as drug and alcohol use, and delinquency.
Here are some ways to be an involved father:
- Get involved with your child from the beginning – there is nothing you cannot do for your baby (except breast-feed).
- Learn about fatherhood and parenting – read articles and books about fathering, attend parent education workshops.
- Have regular one-on-ones with each child – turn off the TV, put down your phone, and give your kids your undivided attention.
- Show affection everyday – all children enjoy love and affection, so kiss and hug your children often and tell them you love them.
- Be a part of their lives – visit their school, meet their teachers and friends, attend their events. Being connected gives you more to talk about.
For more information on the impact fathers have on young children, read the article below from Zero to Three:
Source: The Importance of Fathers, by Stephen F. Duncan, Ph.D., Professor, Family and Human Development Specialist, MSU Extension Service
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