It’s not very often I get the opportunity to hear from a Division I coach. That’s why I found our discussion with head tennis coach Silviu Tanasoiu both interesting and inspiring. Throughout the talk, it was fascinating to hear about the recruiting process, and how much hard work and dedication it takes to win, and to win the Ivy League title. However, the part of the discussion that I found most interesting was the progression of a former tennis player who Coach Tanasoiu calls Bernie.
When Coach Tanasoiu began to speak about Bernie, he described him as a talented and hardworking individual. It was amazing to hear how Bernie’s family urged him not to attend Cornell because they felt Bernie could not handle the work, but even through these doubts, he chose to attend Cornell anyway. At Cornell, Bernie initially struggled balancing the difficult civil engineering courses. According to Coach Tanasoiu, Bernie wanted to quit tennis in order to focus on school. However, Coach Tanasoiu and Bernie eventually were able to work through these issues and Bernie remained on the team. I found it very inspirational that Bernie persevered through these difficult circumstances in the classroom and on the tennis court, as many would have quit.
During Bernie’s senior year, he decided to take about 20 credits, some consisting of graduate courses, along with his other outside commitments, all while playing tennis. I found this remarkable, since not many people could handle such a busy schedule, including myself. Further, I found it incredible that Bernie wanted to attend Stanford after graduation in order to pursue a master’s degree and a PhD, considering his family doubted him originally when he said he wanted to attend Cornell.
According to Coach Tanasoiu, Bernie’s passion and hardworking mentality allowed him to get through even the most difficult times during his time in college. I learned from Bernie’s story to believe in myself, even when others doubt my abilities. I also learned to work hard and never quit when I am going through challenging times. Thus, Bernie’s story was not just a story, it was a lesson for how to approach life.