Coco himself kept a picture of the father’s face that was torn from the family, but after Imelda’s death, Héctor did not return once all the family’s family was held by Coco. Coco never completed the photo during this time and put his father’s photo into the family mourning hall. So what is the hidden line of this movie? It was Coco’s understanding of his father’s life.
After being “abandoned” by Héctor, we could imagine that it was not only Imelda who was angry, but also Coco. This explains why after years since Imelda passed away, Coco still hadn’t put up her dad’s photo. She probably hated that her father abandoned her and her mother and hated music, but she did not know whether her father died or where she was. Therefore, she concealed her father’s picture in her own drawer and she did not want to put on the family mourning hall.
When Miguel brought back the song of Remember me, Coco could see her father’s wishes once more, and then points to the past photos to recall her father and think that papa is back. It’s hard to imagine Coco’s life as a young girl who thought she was abandoned by his father and raised by a dominant, decisive mother. She was holding the whole family alone until death. She might open the drawer and look at his father’s face. Read the letter from her father, remember me, remember the past happy time. Perhaps this is why the film is called “Coco.”
I read a book about a young mother giving her baby girl to an adoption family. Years later when the girl grew up to be a successful lawyer, she resented her mother for abandoning her and refused to forgive her mother. I didn’t really understand until I watched Coco, which depicts a picture that all children “abandoned” by parents – although for a good reason – find it hard to get over the pain, and the self-questioning: am I not a good baby that my parents didn’t want me?
Throughout her life, Coco never knew her father was murdered instead of abandoning her. She might have hated him, resented him , which is completely understandable and normal. However, at the end, when she suffers from Alzheimer, when she starts to forget things – she forgets about hate and resentment, and only the beautiful memories of her father singing to her stayed.
Time heals. I think that’s what this story is trying to tell us.