I submitted my absentee ballot two weeks ago, after spending countless hours researching and educating myself on the subjects at hand. This is the main reason that I was invested in attending the election viewing party that was hosted last Tuesday night. Yet, my takeaway from that event was not at all what I had expected. I went in with the intent of keeping in the loop with the outcome of the election, and I left with a renewed sense of community.
After the last presidential election, Rose House hosted a support event for people who wanted to express their fears and feelings, which I left with a newfound notion that this country is divided not only by different ideology but also by a barrier in communication. What I witnessed through the election were people who were already so rigid in their stance that they were unable to hold an open minded conversation listening to someone who may disagree with their opinions (which I also believe to be the path to solving disagreements). It seemed to be as though political opinions could only be expressed around those who already agree with you, creating a positive feedback cycle of validation for each other.
At this viewing party, I found myself not only researching more thoroughly the procedures surrounding the electoral system, but also being able to openly discuss different topics with those around me. I made a new friend who taught me more about her views and her experiences, while we patiently waited for updates and attempted to further understand the forecasting methods used for reporting predicted outcomes. I really felt this was a wholesome and uncommon event, to feel like part of the community and be able to hold open discussion on different issues. I’ve seen politics end many friendships, but I have hope that bridging the gap of communication can also create new ones.