It’s Been Great!
This last blog has truly been the most difficult to write- not because of a lack of stories, memories or suggestions, but quite the opposite. There have been so many things I have wanted to say and quite frankly, just not enough words to fully tell about my time abroad and the readjustment back to American life. It is hard to believe I have been home nearly a month. Almost every day, a thought comes to me about New Zealand, whether I am hungry for a Tim-Tam cookie or I am missing the friends I made. Nonetheless, I have taken much away from studying abroad and part of my heart officially belongs in New Zealand!
Being at university for four months, there are of course the facts and figures I have learned. I can tell you about the Resource Management Act of New Zealand, Employment Law, the founding of New Zealand, transaction costs of business, and the list goes on. Facts and figures, however, were not the reason I went abroad. I flew thousands of miles to learn about myself, the person you would think I could learn about any day. Rather, it took the experience of leaving everything familiar behind, armed with two suitcases and a backpack full of stuff. I learned just how little I could live with, how fully capable I am, and how confident I truly can be. Coming back, one friend described me as more assertive. I’m not sure that is the word I would use, but when I started my internship earlier this month, I was not one bit nervous about what the job would hold. Likewise, there have been several other instances in which I have begun to feel nervous about something and that all fades when I think to myself, “Why am I nervous? I just came back from living halfway around the world!” From the many Kiwis that I encountered along my journey, I have been reminded of being kind, patient, caring, and more relaxed.
While I may have developed a new sense of confidence and been reminded of some valuable things, some things have not changed. For one thing, I can’t wait to travel some more. Europe next, maybe? Also, I am looking forward to going back to Cornell and have already very much enjoyed various foods I couldn’t get in New Zealand. I am also happy to be back in familiarity: when I need something like Neosporin, I don’t have to describe the product to 12 different people to only end up with something similar! Even though I couldn’t buy Neosporin, my time abroad was absolutely fabulous. I would suggest certain things though, for anyone considering going abroad:
Ø Super shuttle is an amazing service for getting to and from the airport! Their New Zealand website is easy to use and they are way cheaper than taking a taxi. I know they exist in New Zealand and Australia and think they are other places as well.
Ø Pack VERY light when going. Yes, both of my bags were way over weight coming home even though I really didn’t think I had that much stuff with me!! One thing that helped me a bit though was bringing a lot of older clothes with me. As they clothes got too bad to wear, they were tossed away or I donated clothes to the Salvation Army because they had shrunk too much from the dryer. That definitely left more room for my acquired New Zealand items.
Ø Choose housing very carefully. Reliving the freshman experience in a first year dorm can be a little odd, plus as an upperclassman, you are almost guaranteed to not have classes with any of your dorm-mates. I would definitely recommend living amongst natives though, since it will give you the full experience.
Ø Research transportation in the country you are visiting. Naked Bus and Intercity bus in New Zealand were both great getting across New Zealand and if I had known about either of these before arriving, I think things would have started much better.
Ø Give yourself some time before or after your semester to just explore where you are at. I only had two days from my last final and when I was flying out and would’ve rather had a little longer.
Ø However much money you think you will spend, add on a few hundred dollars! Yes, it’s possible to go through a lot of money and you can’t simply rely on a good exchange rate, because chances are, it will change.
Ø Make sure you have a reliable e-mail address. I was unable to use America on-line in New Zealand and had further problems e-mailing other people with Yahoo accounts. However, I have had friends who were fine, so just something to keep in the back of your mind.
Ø Above all, have an open mind! (I know, it sounds clichéd). On my flight to Australia, I watched the movie Yes Man. During the movie, the main character must say ‘yes’ to everything, which meant he had to do some crazy things. For me, having an open mind, meant I tried spaghetti for breakfast, rolled down a hill in a human sized hamster ball Zorbing, climbed the Sydney Harbor Bridge, went luging, and a whole bunch of other exciting things. Have an open mind and studying abroad will be an unforgettable experience!
Cheers and Aroha Nui!










